{"id":747,"date":"2024-06-11T12:26:49","date_gmt":"2024-06-11T12:26:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.vlune.cz\/?p=747"},"modified":"2024-07-09T17:15:25","modified_gmt":"2024-07-09T17:15:25","slug":"poporodni-zavinovaci-ritual","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.vlune.cz\/?p=747","title":{"rendered":"Poporodn\u00ed zavinovac\u00ed ritu\u00e1l"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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R\u00e1da bych V\u00e1m popov\u00eddala n\u011bco o poporodn\u00edm zavinovac\u00edm ritu\u00e1lu, jeho\u017e veden\u00ed m\u011b v m\u00e9 pr\u00e1ci porodn\u00ed asistentky moc t\u011b\u0161\u00ed. Jedn\u00e1 se o \u00fapravu tradi\u010dn\u00edho ritu\u00e1lu la cerrada poch\u00e1zej\u00edc\u00edho z Mexika. (Ka\u017ed\u00fd ho d\u011bl\u00e1 tro\u0161ku jinak, p\u0159izp\u016fsobuje ho sv\u00fdm mo\u017enostem a p\u0159\u00e1n\u00edm \u017eeny\u2026).\u00a0<\/p>\n

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O \u010dem to je<\/em><\/p>\n

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Vn\u00edm\u00e1m ho jako takovou oslavu mate\u0159stv\u00ed, \u010das pro \u017eenskou sebep\u00e9\u010di, a\u0165 u\u017e fyzickou tak psychickou. Zav\u00edr\u00e1 se t\u011blo – t\u011blesn\u011b i psychicky – kter\u00e9 muselo b\u00fdt otev\u0159eno proto, aby se mohlo narodit d\u00edt\u011b. Pokud se ritu\u00e1l povede ud\u011blat kr\u00e1tce po ukon\u010den\u00ed \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed, m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt vn\u00edm\u00e1n jako n\u00e1vrat do spole\u010densk\u00e9ho \u017eivota. N\u011bkdy se stane, \u017ee si \u017eenu ritu\u00e1l zavol\u00e1 t\u0159eba i za p\u00e1r m\u011bs\u00edc\u016f, let. Nikdy nen\u00ed pozd\u011b. Tento ritu\u00e1l se d\u00e1 uspo\u0159\u00e1dat t\u0159eba i jako p\u0159echodov\u00fd ritu\u00e1l k tomu, kdy\u017e se \u017eena rozhodne u\u017e nem\u00edt dal\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti, ukon\u010dit kojen\u00ed nebo se d\u011bl\u00e1 t\u0159eba i po menopauze\u2026<\/p>\n

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Velk\u00fd smysl mi d\u00e1v\u00e1, kdy\u017e poporodn\u00ed ritu\u00e1l vede porodn\u00ed asistentka \u010di porodn\u00ed asistentky nebo porodn\u00ed asistentka ve spolupr\u00e1ci s dulou – zkr\u00e1tka osoby, kter\u00e9 \u017eenu prov\u00e1zely t\u011bhotenstv\u00edm, porodem i \u0161estined\u011bl\u00edm. N\u011bkdy si m\u011b povol\u00e1 i \u017eena, kter\u00e1 chce prov\u00e9st ritu\u00e1lem, ani\u017e bychom spolu pro\u017eily porod. Ritu\u00e1l m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt komorn\u00ed, ale \u017eena si m\u016f\u017ee pozvat t\u0159eba i sv\u00e9 kamar\u00e1dky, \u017eenskou linii rodiny apod. Prob\u00edh\u00e1 u \u017eeny doma.<\/p>\n

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Co je dobr\u00e9 si p\u0159ipravit<\/em><\/p>\n

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Je dobr\u00e9 si na ritu\u00e1l vymezit aspo\u0148 3 hodiny \u010dasu (ide\u00e1ln\u011b v\u0161ak v\u00edce). Tedy v\u011bd\u011bt, \u017ee nap\u0159\u00edklad partner bude m\u00edt volno, \u017ee n\u011bkdo miminko pohl\u00edd\u00e1, ponos\u00ed, bude ho nosit \u017een\u011b na kojen\u00ed v pauze mezi jednotliv\u00fdmi \u010d\u00e1stmi ritu\u00e1lu. N\u011bkter\u00e9 z \u010d\u00e1sti ritu\u00e1lu se daj\u00ed pro\u017e\u00edt i s miminkem v n\u00e1ru\u010di. N\u011bkdy se ritu\u00e1lu \u00fa\u010dastn\u00ed i star\u0161\u00ed d\u011bti, p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm d\u011bv\u010data, kter\u00e1 jsou velmi zv\u011bdav\u00e1 a cht\u011bj\u00ed si vyzkou\u0161et n\u011bkter\u00e9 z aktivit, kter\u00e9 pro\u017eila jejich m\u00e1ma. P\u0159ijde mi to moc p\u011bkn\u00e9. Ale v\u017edy nav\u00e1d\u00edm \u017eenu taky k tomu, aby se prvn\u011b zamyslela, zda je to tak pro ni v po\u0159\u00e1dku, zda nechce ritu\u00e1l pro\u017e\u00edvat t\u0159eba jen sama pro sebe. M\u00e1 to jinou energii.<\/p>\n

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V\u017edy \u017eenu popros\u00edm, aby si nachystala m\u011bkk\u00e9 hezk\u00e9 m\u00edsto na zemi, zavzpom\u00ednala si na t\u011bhotenstv\u00ed, porod(y), \u0161estined\u011bl\u00ed, nac\u00edtila si pro sebe t\u00e9ma ritu\u00e1lu (pokud chce…t\u0159eba n\u00e1ro\u010dn\u00fd porodn\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitek m\u016f\u017ee b\u00fdt samotn\u00fdm t\u00e9matem), p\u0159ipravila si t\u0159eba pro ni n\u011bjak\u00fd d\u016fle\u017eit\u00fd p\u0159edm\u011bt spojen\u00fd s jej\u00edm mate\u0159stv\u00edm, kter\u00fd by si cht\u011bla d\u00e1t na olt\u00e1\u0159ek. (Na olt\u00e1\u0159ku je v\u011bt\u0161inou i n\u011bjak\u00e1 kr\u00e1sn\u00e1 kv\u011btina, kter\u00e1 pak \u017een\u011b z\u016fstane.) \u017dena si m\u016f\u017ee obl\u00e9ct i n\u011bjak\u00e9 hezk\u00e9 \u0161aty\u2026d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9 ale je, aby se v nich c\u00edtila hezky, pohodln\u011b.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Je dobr\u00e9 d\u011blat ritu\u00e1l v \u010dase, kdy se \u017eena c\u00edt\u00ed dob\u0159e, nen\u00ed nemocn\u00e1, d\u00edt\u011b nen\u00ed nemocn\u00e9, doma je \u0159ekn\u011bme ide\u00e1ln\u00ed pokud mo\u017eno harmonick\u00e1 situace.<\/p>\n

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Jak to prob\u00edh\u00e1<\/em><\/p>\n

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Nazdob\u00edme m\u00edsto pro ritu\u00e1l (d\u00e1 se d\u011blat vevnit\u0159 i venku, kdy\u017e je hezk\u00e9 po\u010das\u00ed), m\u016f\u017ee ho doprov\u00e1zet hudba, ale nemus\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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Ritu\u00e1l m\u00e1 zpravidla 3 \u010d\u00e1sti, kter\u00fdm p\u0159edch\u00e1z\u00ed domluva s \u017eenou na jeho pr\u016fb\u011bhu. Prvn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed je o\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed (pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m t\u0159eba vyku\u0159ovadla, koupel na nohy, o\u0161vih\u00e1n\u00ed v\u011btvi\u010dkami), druhou je p\u00e9\u010de a proh\u0159\u00e1t\u00ed (pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m nap\u0159\u00edklad nap\u00e1\u0159ku, mas\u00e1\u017e b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ka, mas\u00e1\u017e t\u011bla obecn\u011b) a posledn\u00ed \u010d\u00e1st\u00ed je zavinut\u00ed (zavinut\u00ed do 7 \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f, zpravidla mexick\u00fdch \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f reboz\u00a0a byt\u00ed s \u017eenou v tomto procesu).\u00a0<\/p>\n

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B\u011bhem o\u010di\u0161t\u011bn\u00ed a p\u00e9\u010de si s \u017eenou pov\u00edd\u00e1m, m\u016f\u017ee sd\u00edlet, co je pot\u0159eba. Pop\u00edj\u00edme kakao a d\u00e1v\u00e1me si n\u011bjakou dobrotu. Do koupele na nohy r\u00e1da p\u0159id\u00e1v\u00e1m soli a \u010derstv\u00e1 \u010di su\u0161en\u00e1 kv\u00edtka, podle toho, co je zrovna za ro\u010dn\u00ed obdob\u00ed. Je mo\u017eno m\u00edt i celot\u011blovou koupel, pokud si to \u017eena p\u0159eje, m\u00e1 vanu apod.\u00a0V p\u0159\u00edpad\u011b nap\u00e1\u0159ky pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1me \u017eensk\u00e9 byliny.<\/p>\n

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Co se t\u00fd\u010de mas\u00e1\u017ee, \u017eena si vyb\u00edr\u00e1, kter\u00e9 \u010d\u00e1sti t\u011bla by cht\u011bla namas\u00edrovat. \u010casto je to b\u0159\u00ed\u0161ko (tady pou\u017e\u00edv\u00e1m bylinn\u00fd m\u011b\u0161ec, tepl\u00fd vo\u0148av\u00fd olej – dle v\u00fdb\u011bru \u017eeny), z\u00e1da, nohy, ruce, obli\u010dej, hlava. N\u011bkter\u00e9 m\u00e9 kolegyn\u011b pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed k mas\u00e1\u017ei tak\u00e9 t\u0159eba l\u00e1vov\u00e9 kameny nebo ba\u0148ky.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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\u017dena z\u016fst\u00e1v\u00e1 v kukle tak dlouho, dokud j\u00ed je to p\u0159\u00edjemn\u00e9 nebo dokud ji nezavol\u00e1 jej\u00ed miminko \ud83d\ude42 Na konci se \u017eena sama \u010di s dopomoc\u00ed vyklube z kukly z \u0161\u00e1tk\u016f a symbolicky z n\u00ed vylet\u00ed jako kr\u00e1sn\u00fd znovuzrozen\u00fd mot\u00fdl. M\u016f\u017ee sd\u00edlet, jak\u00e9 pro ni zavinut\u00ed bylo. Mnohdy m\u011b p\u0159ekvap\u00ed, co \u017eeny pro\u017eily, vid\u011bly, co c\u00edtily. Posd\u00edlela bych, \u017ee n\u011bkter\u00e9 se c\u00edt\u00ed moc hezky, n\u011bkter\u00e9 c\u00edt\u00ed hranice, n\u011bkter\u00e9 popisuj\u00ed pocit obejmut\u00ed, jako by byly zase v l\u016fn\u011b. N\u011bkdy je pro n\u011b za\u010d\u00e1tek zavinut\u00ed t\u011b\u017ek\u00fd, proto\u017ee jim trv\u00e1, ne\u017e si v tom dok\u00e1\u017eou naj\u00edt to uvoln\u011bn\u00ed. Ob\u010das jsou za zav\u0159en\u00fdma o\u010dima p\u0159\u00edtomny cel\u00e9 generace \u017een v rodin\u011b \u010di star\u00e9 bytosti a energie tohoto typu. N\u011bkdy \u017eena usne. Je to r\u016fzn\u00e9.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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\u017dena pak je\u0161t\u011b ode mne dostane symbolick\u00fd d\u00e1rek a pak u\u017e v\u0161e uklid\u00edme a rozlou\u010d\u00edme se.\u00a0<\/p>\n

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Ritu\u00e1l m\u00e1 potenci\u00e1l je\u0161t\u011b n\u011bkolikadenn\u00edho p\u016fsoben\u00ed na \u017eenu, na jej\u00ed psychiku a t\u011blo.<\/p>\n

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Za m\u011b je to n\u00e1dhern\u00e1 ud\u00e1lost, kterou bych p\u0159\u00e1la za\u017e\u00edt ka\u017ed\u00e9 \u017een\u011b.<\/p>\n

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Poj\u010fte se mnou nakouknout, jak to na takov\u00e9m ritu\u00e1lu m\u016f\u017ee vypadat<\/em><\/p>\n